“This is just another adventure and I can’t wait to see where this ride will take us next.” ~Kirk Bertelsen

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Feeling The Love and Making Laps....

   It is the third day since our adventure began. It is two days since surgery. We continue to be amazed, inspired and so blessed. We are sitting here together, me, Kirk and the girls, and our conversation is alive with feelings of gratitude for our blessings and friends.
Mitch, therapist, Kevin Kemp, amazing Friend/Fire Brother/Life Flight Paramedic, Kirk "Superfly" Bertelsen, Mitch, Therapist.,
   Kirk has had a great day today. After he was fitted for his support brace and walked ten steps outside of his room yesterday, we all had great expectations for today. Kirk, on the other hand, was the one in pain and totally exhausted from yesterday's excursion. When Adam, the trauma room PA, stopped in to check on Kirk this morning, Kirk asked if he could request to not get up and walk again until his chest tube was removed. Adam said, "You can request that all you want but you WILL be getting up today." I don't know that I have ever heard Kirk be so compliant as when he said, "Okay."
   Kirk continues to impress everyone caring for him as well as those who love him so much. Today he made three laps around the nurses desk with his therapists. He ate well today and spent the evening having his nurse rotate him from side to side for 20 minutes each time trying to drain the fluid from his lungs in an effort to prevent pneumonia. She is so diligent with him and we are so grateful.
   I was speaking with a very dear friend today, Tim Anderson, a physical therapist who found himself in a similar situation about three years ago when he crashed his four wheeler. His body sustained a lot of damage and Tim spent months healing and learning basic things such as how to walk again. Oh, how we take these things for granted. I told Tim we could feel the prayers of all of our friends. He said he never understood that phrase until he experienced prayers from his family and friends through his Journey of healing. Your prayers have have sustained us. They have brought peace in a very unsettling situation. I'm a little bit of a control freak and this adventure does not make allowances for personality flaws such as mine. Feeling the prayers has helped me keep my hands inside until the ride comes to a complete stop. I've turned the steering over to those who know the way. Such a hard thing to do.
   I've been reading your comments to Kirk every night. We have laughed at some of our incredibly clever friends and held on tight to the well wishes. Kirk asked me to make sure that tonight's post thanked all of you. So...THANK YOU a million times! Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. Thank you for the phone calls, texts and comments on the blog and the Facebook updates. Thank you for the visits and even for being okay with not visiting so he can get enough rest to push himself during therapy. You have no idea how grateful we are.
    Kirk and I talked about how much we love Dr. Gardner. He is fun to visit with when he stops in but most of all, the man knows what he is doing. We have no idea how we got so blessed to have him as our surgeon. Kirk said, "I know he gets paid a lot but how do we ever repay him." The only answer I could come up with is that we are now indebted to him. We are okay with this.
   We went  one step further....Heavenly Father has given us so much, so much that we take for granted. Walking, eating unassisted, being able to move your body to make it comfortable without fear, even being able to go to work each day. All of these blessing that we are so freely given. How do we pay him back?
    I am certain our adventure will have its ups and downs, highs and lows and everything in between. I am so glad to have you along for the ride.

11 comments:

  1. Thanks for sharing how Kirk is doing. You are in our prayers every day.

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  2. Ralph and I were both so disappointed that Kirk wasn't feeling up to a visit yesterday but we want what is best for him. Sure hope he is feeling better today. Please give him our love-you are ALL in our prayers! We know he is in good hands. Love you!

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    1. Love you and so glad that you are understanding. What would we do without the two of you?

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  3. We are so happy to see his progress. I have to tell you we talked with our boys to keep " brother herkelson" as Sammy says in our prayers because he is in the hospital and you know for they have forgotten him in a single prayer. He gets morning, noon and night here in washington and is in two more temples! We are so happy he is being taken care of. We wish we could come visit or hug you all.

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    1. Hugs are easily felt through your words!! Give the family a hug from us and dang, it was so good to see you guys!!

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  4. You're working hard, be sure and get the rest that you need. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Our love your way.

    We are honored at our new positions in your family.... As your new set of "parents" and "grandparents" to Dani & Bryn, you should start calling us Bombie and Gramie. Knew there had to be a way to get more grandkids. (Just had to laugh when Karl came home with the story of being Gena's dad!! Must be all the white we're sporting on our noggins)

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    1. Hi Bombie and Gramie.....I mean....Karl and Deanne! It was actually being Kirk's dad!! I am not sure if this is worse for Karl or not!!!
      So glad to see you both and so grateful you are in our lives...no matter how;)

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  5. Your positive attitudes and strong determination as you face this trial is so inspiring. We just wanted you to know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers! Matt & Angie Workman & Michael:)

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    1. Hi Workman Family!! Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers! We are certain that our adventure has been made so much better because of them. Please tell Michael to keep working on his testimony and that miracles happen daily!!

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  6. It is amazing how your persepctive on Prayer can change when the prayers being offered are for YOU. I will never forget the peace I felt after Severin's birth when I knew so many people were praying for us. That peace lasted through many scary times. And here we are 2 years later with a toddler who wasn't supposed to live. Prayers are heard and answered this I know to be true.

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